Get your girlfriend back and stop pussyfooting around. Time is of the essence.
Letting down the barriers to your emotions and letting someone come inside is an extremely brave thing to do. You could look at it as a risk versus reward situation. After all, you have let your barriers down, so you stand to get hurt, but you also have the potential reward of a beautiful girlfriend by your side for years to come. Of course, if you are reading this article, then that probably means that you are struggling in a relationship, or that you have recently broken up. That is nothing to worry about. After all, relationships have their ups and downs, but in the end, as long as there is no major reason, most couples choose to get back together.
Even if you were dumped, the break up is usually as hard on the other person as it has been on the dumpee.
A lot of people find themselves in a state of desperation, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you are in love. Like anything that the body becomes accustomed to, a relationship does become a habit. You need to ensure that you can see a clear line between love and habit. If you can see that the relationship was 80% love and 20% habit, then you are OK.
The next thing you need to do is follow some steps for getting her back. Even if they're with someone else, it's not too late. The trick is to do something about it fast before it's too late. The good news is that 95 percent of couples can get back together but you need to act fast.