Getting back together with an ex takes some effort but is well worth the results.
It might seem like you have lost it all. You had fun, you had a good laugh, you felt loved and you know that you loved them, and now it has all disappeared. Now you sit at home alone, wondering what to do with your spare time, and wondering what they are doing. Of course, you shouldn't be doing this, as it is really not going to help your case at all. Instead you need to be getting out, meeting your friends and family and generally living your life.
This is extremely important as it will help you realize whether you really want to be with your current partner for good. It may be that you have slipped into a comfortable habit that you simply can't break. Well you are definitely going to have to make a decision what is best for you in the long run now. Evaluate the relationship as a whole and don't just focus on the good points either. This is a huge mistake that most people make and is the reason why most relationships make up and break up so regularly. If you love them, it will start to show and you'll be able to get them back.
You may feel slightly confused and if this is the case then you might want to get some outside help. There is plenty of free advice available throughout the internet but I would suggest that you go for something a bit more on the premium side. After all, every passing second you leave it, could be another second that they stop thinking about you.