Relationships end for a number of reasons, and some times it is an automatic reaction to get back with your ex. But, do you really want to get back with your ex, or is it just habit? Do you miss her/him or do you miss having someone to support you? Are you confused and don't know what to do with yourself? Follow a few of the following steps and hopefully it will help you evaluate where you stand and whether you should get back with your ex!
#1 Evaluate your relationship
When your relationship was up and running, did it feel like quality? Were you arguing consistently? If it felt like a quality relationship and is something that you miss, this is a sign that you should be together. If you found yourselves arguing 5+ times a week about nothing in particular, then it probably wasn't going to work anyway!
#2 Eliminate certain scenarios
Are you wanting to get back with your ex in case they get with someone else? This is definitely not the right mentality to have. You should want to get back with your partner for who they are and what you have together, not because you are worried about her being on someone else's arm. In fact, if they are happy and you love them, then you should be happy for them!
#3 Break down communication
Communicating on a daily basis now isn't a good thing to do. Give yourselves some space and allow yourselves to establish whether it is right to pursue the relationship.