So has the relationship of your dreams come to a sudden end? Are you looking for the most effective ways to win over your ex but you don't have a clue where to start? Do you think that there is a way to win back your ex but you just have not found it yet? Will you try whatever happens? Good! This article will certainly help you understand what is possible.
Lets start with a fact that might help you; around 9/10 of relationships will end up carrying on stronger than they ever were. This is because the small gap in the relationship allows each partner to understand how much the other person really means to them. Of course, there are the odd exceptions, but bear this in mind as a positive when you are trying!
So where do you start? You need to install power back in the relationship. At the moment your ex holds all the power because you're the one sitting here desperately looking for a way to get them back.
What you need to do is get rid of that desperation and your emotional neediness right now and build yourself up slowly as a much stronger, more desirable person. Being desperate and needy will just drive your ex further and further away from you.
So while you think right now your ex is controlling your chances of getting back together, the buck actually stops with you. It's how you handle not only the breakup but yourself will determine whether you guys get back together.